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I was emailing with another blogger about what picture to use to represent a blog we were writing together. Somehow she (who is partially sighted) challenged me to come up with a picture that could represent a nonvisual example of perspective.  I suggested “a picture of someone in Wisconsin wearing shorts and someone in Florida wearing a winter coat with a sign saying “Fifty degrees F; it’s a matter of perspective.” I began to notice situations where a blind person’s perspective on a situation was radically different from a sighted person’s perspective. Examples follow.

This week, with a good bit of fanfare, Facebook announced that they were automatically captioning pictures that people post, so they’d be accessible to those of us who are blind. I eagerly checked my Facebook feed, which I’d swear is about 70% pictures. The automatic captions were like the following: “May be a picture of a person indoors”. “May be a picture of outdoors”. Now that is amazing, I agree that a computer can recognize pictures of objects and decide if it’s inside or outside, but it’s not a real game changer for me. I will still bug my friends to caption their own Facebook offerings with “beautiful sunset on Lake Superior” rather than their usual “Wow, look at this.” It’s all a matter of perspective, Facebook is quite pleased with themselves; I’d give them one star out of four.

Second example of perspective: Freading got back to me about their app not working with voiceover. They said thanks for the idea and we consider your case closed.  They’d heard my idea, probably passed it on to somebody in charge of keeping a list of good ideas and considered it settled. I want to read a Freading book and can’t using voiceover on my phone. For me, it won’t be done until I can read that book.  So I contacted the library access person who will contact Freading and see if as a purchaser of the software, the library gets further in requesting access. Another one star out of four from my perspective.

Frequent discussions in the disability communities where I hang out electronically involve what to do about able-bodied people calling us “inspirational” for all the wrong reasons: like how well someone uses a power wheelchair, instead of how qualified they’d be for the job they’re interviewing for. Disabled community reaction of irritation-rage; able-bodied community reaction of awe at the little things and hurt if irritation is expressed. This week I had this experience when I read a prayer out loud from a braille copy of a book and someone asked me to do it again next meeting because it was “so powerful” that I could read.  My irritation was aroused but I knew her well enough to know she meant no harm. Since I’d asked her to read several times, I just said “I guess it’s fair for you to ask me to read.”

Note to self after all these ruminations about perspective: next time someone pisses me off, perhaps I should put a lock on my mouth until I put myself in their shoes for at least ten seconds. Could be a lifesaver as the political season drones on!

 

 

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What makes a perfect birthday for you? I think it depends partly on one’s age. Recently I hit one in the mid ‘60’s, not a milestone, just a day—but it turned out perfect. Perfect for me means lasts a long time and includes friends, fun and fecundity/productivity. (Hard to find that last “F” that meant what I wanted to say!

Tidbits of advice that jumped out at me from emails, Twitter and Facebook that day:

  • Challenges are what make life interesting. Overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.
  • Stay true to yourself and don’t be invisible after sixty!
  • Everyone dies, but not everyone really lives!
  • Being holy means being whole.
  • Two things define you: Your patience when you have nothing, and your attitude when you have everything.
  • “Only one page is left in the book of my life. His name fills that page, His everlasting kingdom.”—Rumi
  • “I encourage you to bear witness to Christ in your personal life and families: a witness of gratuitousness, solidarity, spirit of service.”—Pope Francis
  • “I wish faith wrapped you in a bubble, but it doesn’t, not for long.”—Anne Lamott
  • Recognize the good in your life.
  • Live every day as if it’s your last, embracing each experience as if it’s your first.

And a great question: “What is on your happiness list?”

The birthday started a couple weeks early with a lunch with a friend who was going on an extended vacation.  The actual day started at 3:15am when my trusty guide dog announced she needed to go out.  It was so still out at that time it was almost beautiful and it wasn’t precipitating.  Luckily we could both sleep in a bit. Work for the day included advocating for Freading to be made usable with Voiceover. The company had blown me off with “thanks for your idea”, so I got the library’s accessibility officer to contact them. I wonder if he’ll be blown off as quickly since it’s libraries that purchase Freading so their customers can download electronic books on demand.  Then I did some work on an upcoming talk for student members of the Society for Human Resource Management.  Many of them have heard my basic talk in a business diversity class, so I’ll call it Disability 2.0 and hit some of the same core points but do it differently.  Basic points:

  • Go out of your comfort zone.
  • Treat those of us with disabilities as equal to you but not the same.
  • Ask “how can I help?”
  • Enjoy figuring out what needs to be different like solving a puzzle, not like a chore.

Then lunch with a friend, a nap, two hours of reading (to get bills tended to, birthday cards read and inaccessible chores on the computer completed). I emailed the inaccessible sites about what they need to do to become more accessible (basically get rid of CAPTCHAS).  The day wrapped up with supper with friends and settling down to finish The Martian. I even got to start a book for next Tuesday’s book club: The 100-Year-Old Man Who Climbed out the Window and Disappeared by Jonas Jonasson. Maybe it’ll inspire me to strive to be 100!

The birthday month will rock along with a few more meals with friends already on the schedule and other unknown blessings. Savor the joy when your birth day/month comes along!